Do opposites really attract? No, researchers confirm
Scientists found opposites do not attract in a meta-analysis of traits of millions of couples in information gathered for over more than a century.
A new American study has decoded the question of whether opposites indeed do attract with a meta-analysis, based on data about millions of couples over more than 100 years in the US and the UK.
The researchers looked at 22 traits across 199 studies, including millions of male-female co-parents, engaged pairs, married pairs, or cohabitating pairs; the oldest study was conducted in 1903.
The study was just published in the prestigious online journal Nature Human Behaviour. The meta-analysis confirms what individual studies have hinted at for decades, defying the age-old adage that opposites attract.
It found that for between 82% and 89% of traits analysed – including political leanings, age of first intercourse, and substance use habits –partners were more likely than not to be similar.
For only 3% of traits, and only in one part of their analysis, did individuals tend to partner with those who were different than them. Besides shedding light on unseen forces that may shape human relationships, the research has important implications for the field of genetic research.
“A lot of models in genetics assume that human mating is random. This study shows this assumption is probably wrong,” said Prof. Matt Keller, the senior author and director of the University of Colorado Boulder Institute for Behavioural Genetics (IBG). What is known as “assortative mating” – when individuals with similar traits couple up – can skew findings of genetic studies, he said.
Same-sex couples not included in research
Same-sex couples were not included in the research; because their patterns may differ significantly, the authors are now exploring those separately.
Across both analyses, traits such as political and religious attitudes, level of education, and certain measures of IQ showed particularly high correlations. For instance, on a scale in which zero means there is no correlation and one means couples always share the trait, the correlation for political values was .58.
Traits around substance use also showed high correlations, with heavy smokers, heavy drinkers, and teetotalers tending strongly to partner up with those with similar habits. Factors such as height and weight, medical conditions, and personality traits showed far lower but still positive correlations.
For some traits, such as extroversion, there was not much of a correlation at all.
“People have all these theories that extroverts like introverts or extroverts like other extroverts, but the fact of the matter is that it’s about like flipping a coin: Extroverts are similarly likely to end up with extroverts as with introverts,” said Tanya Horwitz, a doctoral candidate in the University of Colorado Boulder Department of Psychology and Neuroscience and the IBG.
The researchers found no compelling evidence of any trait that opposites attract. In the UK Biobank sample, they did find a handful of traits in which there seemed to be a negative correlation, albeit small. Those included chronotype (whether someone is a “morning lark” or “night owl”), tendency to worry, and difficulty hearing. More research must be done to unpack those findings, they said.
The trait for which couples were most likely to be similar was, not surprisingly, birth year. But even seldom-studied traits, such as how many sexual partners a person had had or whether they had been breastfed as a child showed some correlation.
These findings suggest that even in situations where we feel like we have a choice about our relationships, there may be mechanisms happening behind the scenes of which we aren’t fully aware,” Horwitz said.
The authors said couples share traits for a variety of reasons. Some grow up in the same area, are attracted to people who are similar to them, or grow more similar the longer they are together.
Depending on the cause, there could be future consequences. For example, Horwitz said, if short people are more likely to produce offspring with short people and tall people with tall people, there could be more people at the height extremes in the next generation. The same goes for psychiatric, medical, or other traits.
There could also be social implications. For instance, some small previous studies have suggested that Americans are growing more likely to couple up with people with similar educational backgrounds – a trend that, some theorize, could widen the socioeconomic divide. Notably, the new study also showed that the strength of correlations for traits differed across populations, and possibly, they are also likely to change over time.
The researchers cautioned that the correlations they found were fairly modest and should not be overstated or misused to promote an agenda. Horwitz said assortative mating research was, tragically, co-opted by the eugenics movement of people around the world, who claimed humans could be perfected and social problems eliminated by involuntary sterilization, segregation, and social exclusion to prevent the birth of the “unfit.”
The authors said they hoped their study would spark more research across various disciplines, including economics, sociology, anthropology, and psychology.
“People could use this data to do their own analyses and learn more about how and why people end up in the relationships they do,” she said.
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